1.- Banishing a DARK is part of Allure's effect. If you mill it with DD, you still have to banish a DARK OR discard your whole hand.
2.- "Select and remove from play 1 card in your Deck. During your second Standby Phase after this card's activation, add the removed card to your hand."
Gold Sarcophagus (the CARD) was never activated, only it's effect. You banish the monster, but you wont get it back.